I
am not the first person to write about this topic and I certainly will not be
the last. It is something we all know that we are guilty of, yet
every day we continue to do it. Any
guesses?
Time
flies and with each passing day/week/month there is something that you wanted
to do but didn’t have the time. I’m going
to call that something, or things, “it”.
Why
is this concept so incredibly hard? There
are books, articles, Facebook posts and inspirational pins reminding us daily
of how precious time is. However, I’m sure it would only take you 10 seconds name one “it” you weren’t able to get to this week. Just to be clear, I’m not talking about
chores or required activities when I’m referring to “it”. It is the phone call, the email, the get well
card, the lunch date, the yoga class, the “fill-in-the-blank”, that gets pushed aside
when everyday life takes over.
So
what can you do? You do what you think is impossible…..you
create time. Sure, you may not be able
to add another hour to the day, but when you make the commitment to yourself to
get “it” done, you can discover time where there appeared to be none. The surprising thing is that most “its” don’t
have to take a lot of time. If you’ve
been wanting to reach out and say hi to someone, send them a quick text, thinking of u. Or call them during your
commute/dance lessons/soccer practice.
If they don’t answer, leave a message that will bring a smile to their
face. We often wait for the perfect time
to do “it” and the longer we wait for that perfect time, the more time passes
and “it” doesn’t get done.
This
week I did something completely out of character. I took a half day in the middle of the week
(insert jaw drop). I went to the school
and pulled my son out at lunch time (insert second jaw drop). Then we went to a baseball game. In the middle of the day. While my inbox was filling up. While meetings were happening without
me. While his class practiced writing
the letter “T”. We cheered on the team, got
a game ball, ate a giant cookie and watched in wide eyed wonder as the players
walked just feet in front of us. “It”
was worth every second.
I
realize that my example is a pretty big “it”, but in all honesty without the
nudge from my boss, I wouldn’t have done “it”.
I proved to myself that the time is there, you just have to make “it”
the priority. “It” may cause you to
juggle some things, or work a different schedule, but the feeling you get when
you do “it” is beyond words. The things that
keep you busy will come and go, but the connections you make with the people in
your life live in your heart forever.
What
“it” will you do today?
Heart-FULLy
yours,
Kacey
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